Meet Other POCFs Who Get You.
We know what it’s like to live this unique lifestyle without friends or family to relate to (or tell you to deal with it), to feel anxious while our partners are away, or to feel overwhelmed about an uncertain future.
But together, this life can be better than you could imagine!
Does This Sound Familiar?
“Things have been so hectic in our fishery. I wish I had support on what to do next!”
“I want to meet other partners because it is a special and unique industry that we are a part of.”
“I’m lonely. Being ‘seasonally single’ is hard for me. I’m sad when I have to plan or attend family functions, birthdays, anniversaries, holidays, etc., without my fisherman.”
“I’m overwhelmed and exhausted from managing household responsibilities and/or raising kids solo.”
“My fisherman is retiring, and I/they are struggling with the transition out of this lifestyle.”
“I worry about the safety of my fishermen and the income we’ll make each season.”
“I have good friends and family around, yet no one who understands this lifestyle.”
The good news is we know what it’s like because we are Partners of Commercial Fishermen like you!
“Oh my gosh, Megan! The quality of women you have collected is amazing! I’m excited, and with every click, I get more and more excited. These women have wonderful careers, write intelligibly with such inspiring insight into this life. I’m SO impressed!!! I’m so excited! I think I have found my forum home.” – J. M., Newport, Oregon.
Imagine if you had a built-in group of women to rely on through the on & off seasons…
- Loneliness will decrease when you connect with others who “get you” and validate your experience.
- You’ll gain support and advice that ranges from relationships to motherhood challenges to retirement and more from POCFs who have been where you are.
- Self-doubt and confusion will diminish when sharing experiences and asking questions because they understand what it’s like.
- You can make new friendships to last a lifetime.
- You’ll have instant access to the forum anytime through your phone or laptop. We are here for you!
Welcome to the Only Private Forum for Partners of Commercial Fishermen!
Whether you’ve just started dating your fisherman or have been together several years (or fifty!), the private forum is OUR place to virtually connect with like-minded women who share your unique POCF lifestyle that you carry on your phone or laptop. You Are Not Alone!
“I’m really excited to see that there’s a whole community of us out there. It makes me feel better that I’m not alone in this.” – POCF Jami, Stanwood, Washington.
HERE’S HOW OUR FORUM IS UNLIKE ANY OTHER:
> OUR PRIVATE FORUM IS THE ONLY ONLINE SPACE DEDICATED TO GIRLFRIENDS, FIANCÉS, AND WIVES OF COMMERCIAL FISHERMEN.
> OUR GROUP RANGES FROM NEWBIES (OR “GREENHORNS”) TO 5th GENERATION POCFs, AND THOSE WHO HAVE BEEN WITH THEIR FISHERMEN FOR OVER FOUR DECADES.
> THE FORUM IS A SAFE SPACE TO TALK DIRECTLY TO MEGAN AND OTHERS WHO UNDERSTAND YOUR LIFE ON A DEEPER LEVEL.
> UNLIKE SOCIAL MEDIA GROUPS, YOU WON’T GET SPAMY UPDATES FROM HIGH SCHOOL RANDOMS OR FAMILY MEMBERS CROWDING YOUR FEED.
> “PRIVATE FORUM” MEANS IT’S JUST FOR POCFs, AND YOUR INFORMATION WILL NEVER BE SHARED.
INSIDE THE FORUM YOU’LL FIND:
⚓️ Instant connection to partners of commercial fishermen from around the world!
⚓️ New resources are added monthly with “important-to-us” topics that only POCFs understand and experience regularly.
⚓️ A growing bank of helpful, valuable tips and actionable advice to help you thrive in the on and off seasons.
⚓️ The ability to start conversations & ask questions on what’s important to you today through a private group text chat! (Otherwise, this is a separate paid offer for non-forum members.)
⚓️ Private Podcast episodes only for Forum Members.
⚓️ Emotional support through commercial fishing lifestyle challenges.
⚓️ 1st access to annual in-person events to hang with your fish sisters in real life!
⚓️ Remain anonymous if you choose!
⚓️ Ability to ask Megan questions and seek advice/feedback
How It Works
> You can instantly pop on the forum any time, day or night, on your phone or laptop!
> Create a user name, introduce yourself to the group (if you’d like), and get instant access to private resources that are helpful for you today.
What You’ll Gain
> Goodbye isolation, and hello to a community of like-minded POCFs who understand your unique life and relationship.
> You’ll have an instant community and access to support to help you through any challenges you’re facing today.
Hosted by founder Megan Waldrep
This exclusive and secure forum is personally monitored by Partners of Commercial Fishermen founder Megan Waldrep, and it features contributions from POCFs around the world. How cool is that?!
“I created this community for partners like me to connect, relate, laugh, vent (with love), and feel less alone in our unique and adventurous lifestyle.” – Megan Waldrep
“I personally can’t wait to connect with you in the forum…because meeting POCFs online literally changed my life.
When I wrote a blog post about Dating a Commercial Fisherman, the first email I received from a fellow POCF saying, “I get you,” brought a sense of belongingness that I never knew existed – my feelings were valid, and I wasn’t alone.
More than anything, I want to share that with you today.
As a partner of a California spiny lobsterman/Alaska sockeye salmon fisherman for almost a decade, my goal is to connect POCFs worldwide to make others feel seen, heard, and less alone in this unique and adventurous lifestyle.
Should you join the forum, you instantly become a part of a dynamic community that feels like a sisterhood that many of us don’t get to experience where we live. This kind of connection is utterly life-changing, no matter what stage you’re in.
I look forward to meeting you personally inside our forum!”
Here’s What People Are Saying About Our Community:
“I have reached a new level of missing my guy. For the last month, we were able to keep in touch by phone/texting. Yesterday the boat left for the grounds, and we are now out of touch for at least a month. Unless you’ve been in a relationship with a fisherman, you really don’t understand what it’s like. It’s a challenge. Thanks for the group – we are small in numbers, but I know that each of you gets it, which helps.” – Deb, Anchor Point, Alaska
“I’m from Canada, and I only started dating a commercial fisherman/diver at the end of July, knowing full well that he would be gone for 4 months, Sep-Jan. Again, I’m so incredibly happy I found you and this blog because I feel this is so different from so many other LDRs (long distant relationships).” – Lainna, British Columbia, Canada
“This community it makes me feel that I’m not alone in this.” – Alexis, San Francisco, California
Is the Forum For You?
THIS IS FOR YOU IF:
- You want to learn ways to focus on strengthening yourself, your relationship, and your family.
- You desire support and resources that can be there for you when your fisherman is away.
- You want to relate with like-minded women who have been there and will not judge you if you have questions.
- If you want a sense of community without the pressure to interact.
THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF:
- You believe “suck it up” is the only way to cope with being a fisherman’s partner.
- You can’t be respectful when reading about others’ unique experiences as POCFs.
- You are a partner of a sport fisherman. We love our sporties, but being in a relationship with a commercial fisherman is different. It just is!
There has never been a better time to connect with POCFs & here’s why:
Take a moment to envision the season or off-season in front of you…
- As changes arise (as they always do in commercial fishing), do you have the mental and emotional support to ease transitions for you, your fisherman, and your family?
- Do you currently have access to materials and resources about the commercial fishing lifestyle?
- Do you currently have a community where you can ask questions about the commercial fishing lifestyle or business?
The only way to find strength and support is to connect with others in this incredibly unique lifestyle!
“I can’t thank you enough for your website and advice to all women in all different stages of their relationship with a commercial fisherman. I will no doubt visit your site often and contribute as I can.” – POCF Jenny, Portland, Oregon.
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Frequently Asked Questions:
Is your membership a one-time price or a monthly payment?
- Due to the nature of the content, the forum membership is one year upon payment. (You receive many goodies up front!)
How soon can I access the forum?
- Immediately! As soon as your payment is verified, you will be directed to the forum to create your personal forum name and password.
Do you offer refunds?
- Due to the nature of the forum, no refunds will be offered.
I am a commercial fisherman. Can I join, too?
- We love our fishermen, but this forum is only for partners of commercial fishermen. There are groups just for commercial fishermen online. But if you are a POCF who is also a fisherman, then yes!
My partner is a sport fisherman. May I join?
- Unfortunately, no. We appreciate similarities in our experience, but the lifestyle in the commercial industry is very different. However, there are many groups for recreational fishermen and families that you can find online!
Just imagine what you could do with a caring group of women who are there for you in the on and off-seasons.
Knowing you have a private community you can rely on is that sweet feeling of being supported even when your partner is away.
Say YES to yourself and ultimately thrive in your POCF experience!
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“Woooo! Finally, a place where everyone understands! I’m about to be living the single dog-mom life, so the more virtual friends I can collect, the better. Thanks, Megan!” – POCF, Seattle, Washington
Other Ways to Connect with Megan & the POCF Community:
🎙️ Listen to the POCF Podcast! 🎧
This is a perfect place to learn about what POCFs and industry insiders are experiencing today. We are building an oral history of Partners of Commercial Fishermen, and I’m excited for you to join us!
➡️ Listen now on Apple, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon, iHeart, and more!
👯♀️ Cruise our Lifestyle Blog! ⚓️
This is where it all started.
Our blog is a go-to resource for all things related to the Partners of Commercial Fishermen lifestyle! If you’re unsure where to start, consider this your home port.
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